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Introduction message generator

Enter two people and why they should talk to get the two private asks and the final introduction, for chat or email. Nothing is sent anywhere.

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Summarise

Short answer: A double opt-in introduction message asks each person privately whether they want the introduction, and connects them only when both say yes. Enter the two people, what each does and why they should talk. The tool writes the two private asks and the final introduction, for chat or email. It runs in your browser and sends nothing anywhere.

Runs in your browser. Nothing you type is sent anywhere.

Person A
Person B

Finishes "I think you two should talk because..."

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Ask Person A first, privately

Hi Person A,

I'd like to introduce you to Person B.

Would you be happy for me to introduce you and share your contact details with Person B? A quick yes or no is fine, and no is completely fine too. I'll only make the introduction if you both say yes.
253 characters

Send this to Person A only.

Key takeaways

  • Ask each person privately before you introduce them. Either can say no without awkwardness.
  • Share contact details only after both have said yes.
  • A specific reason ("she has hired two CFOs this year") gets a better response than "you two should meet".
  • Keep the final introduction short and step back once it is sent.

How to use the introduction message generator

  1. 1Enter person A and person B: a name and a short phrase about what each does.
  2. 2Write why they should talk, as the end of the sentence "I think you two should talk because..."
  3. 3Add how this came up and your name, and choose chat or email.
  4. 4Send message 1 to person A and message 2 to person B, each privately.
  5. 5When both say yes, send message 3 to both of them together.

What is a double opt-in introduction message?

A double opt-in introduction is one where both people agree before they are connected. Instead of putting two people in a chat and hoping it goes well, the introducer asks each one privately first. Only when both say yes does the introducer send the message that connects them.

It protects both sides. Nobody's number is shared without permission, a busy person can decline quietly, and the person asking gets an introduction to someone who actually wants to help.

Why ask first?

  • Saying no in private is easy. Saying no in a group chat you were added to is not.
  • It stops the most generous members from being overloaded, because they can decline when they are busy.
  • Both people arrive at the introduction ready to talk, so fewer introductions go unanswered.
  • It respects privacy: phone numbers and emails are shared only with consent.

Writing a reason that gets a yes

VagueSpecific
You two should connect.Rahul ran paid ads for two skincare brands, and Priya is about to start hers.
She knows a lot about hiring.She hired her first three engineers in Pune last year and can share what worked.
He might be able to help.He sells to hospitals in Delhi, which is the buyer Arjun is trying to reach.

How Milvao handles introductions

Milvao runs this same pattern on a community's WhatsApp business number. A member asks privately, Milvao asks the best-fitting member if they can help, and numbers are shared only after two yeses: the person asking agrees to share theirs for that request, and the matched member accepts that introduction. See privacy and consent.

FAQ

Questions about double opt-in introduction message

It is an introduction where the introducer asks both people privately first, and connects them only when both have said yes. Nobody's contact details are shared without their agreement.

Usually the person being asked for help, since they are the one giving time. If they say yes, check with the other person, then send the introduction to both.

Thank them and leave it there. Tell the other person you couldn't arrange it this time, without passing on the reason, and look for someone else who could help.

Yes. It is free, needs no sign-up and runs in your browser. The names and details you type are not sent anywhere.
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